Greetings and Welcome!

We are Mr & Mrs Jones, hosts of the We Gotta Thing podcast and creators and presenters of Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey.

We've been married for over 30 years, in the lifestyle since 2013 and podcasting since 2014.  Our experience puts us in a unique position to help others to understand the lifestyle, decide if it's right for them and if so, how to enter and navigate it in a healthy way while having fun at the same time.

We are not professional counselors.  Instead, we consider ourselves relationship coaches, merely a couple sharing our experiences to help others deepen their relationships and avoid some of the growing pains that can come with navigating the swinging lifestyle.  

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Our Suite of Offerings

Complete Lifestyle Course

Six modules and over 40 lessons:

We define today's lifestyle

We help you discover your play style and explore the lifestyle community. 

We discuss how to process your experiences and remain a team during your adventures

We conclude with the joys of making lifelong lifestyle friendships

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Lifestyle Mini-Courses

Targeted "How To" Topics: 

Great resources for people who want more information on a specific topic.

Includes discussion questions and additional resources

Includes a $49 coupon good towards purchase of the Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey course



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Members Only Subscription

Members receive the following:

Access to an exclusive WeGottaThing private members only social media community (including ladies only mens only groups)

One-hour live interactive video podcast with Mr & Mrs Jones once per month

Monthly video chats with other community members facilitated by the Joneses

Access to our mini-course library

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What Others are Saying:

"For anyone contemplating the lifestyle this is the quintessential guide. The Joneses are sexy, classy and informative and my wife and I can relate to them and their message on so many levels. With just a few months experience under our belts (so to speak) we have already endured a roller coaster of emotions but their guidance along the way helped strengthen our loving and committed relationship. Thank you Mr & Mrs Jones!"

Wise Counsel

"Anyone considering entering the lifestyle should listen to Mr & Mrs Jones first. We could've avoided much negativity while enhancing our experience by knowing about Rules & Boundaries, how and why to set them up and how to manage them as you progress. Great philosophies and practical advice from a loving couple. Thanks so much for the great lessons!"

Best Lifestyle Information!

"As a 25 year married couple with 10 years experience in the lifestyle, we really enjoy the Joneses very practical insights. Their wit, intelligence and authenticity make their message an easy and informative listen. Mr & Mrs Jones complement each other very well and their longstanding relationship and the trust and communication they have together represent the cornerstone from which their lifestyle insights begin."

They Gotta Thing

Why Invest in Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey?

The value of this course is threefold. 
It will save you valuable:

Rather than wander around the lifestyle for months or even years, our course is designed to step you through your journey in a practical and methodical way.


We help you to understand what lifestyle events, websites, resorts, parties and dating are all about so you can choose to spend your resources on the best experiences for you.

Wear and tear on your relationship:

We help you avoid mistakes, recover from the ones you do make, and learn how to have the right conversations and discussions at the right time.


Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey contains explicit content. You must be 18 years or older to purchase.

30-Day Money Back Guarantee*

Try Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey for 30 days…

If you don’t agree it’s a valuable guide to exploring and entering the swinging lifestyle, or…whatever your reason, or NO reason at all, just let us know within 30 days of purchase and you will receive a 100% refund. No questions asked.

The Joneses

*Refunds not applicable to our Membership Community or Mini-Courses*

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